This child's life is hidden from us. She - inside. This inner world of the child. And if we want to create a close and open relationship with your child, if we want to be friends with him, we need to know his world.
Do we know the world of our children?
Do we know their thoughts, feelings, biases?What do you know about the inner world of your child?
What your child thinks, when waking up?
In what mood he wakes up?
Do it to be, to live next to you?
What's his favorite food?
Favorite movie?
Cartoon?
With whom he is friends?
What is the name of his friends?
Who is he and why quarrel?What takes place in the classroom or group of kindergarten?
Does enjoys prestige among children in the yard?
What lessons like?
What hate?
Which teachers like?
Who does not like? Why?
What is your child interested in?
What was he dreaming?
He divided his dreams?
With whom he is in love?With whom he was in love? Who was this man? Why love is over?
What grief was your baby? Because of what he sad?
Is afraid of your child?
What he was not sure?
What it lacks in life?
What does he want from you?
What support is needed to your child?
If we all will knoweasier for us to become a close friend to your child. Easier to support him. And the support that he really needs.
- But how can I know what's inside? What should be done to know what's inside? - Parents often ask. And the answer to this question is simple. To know this - it is necessary to get close to the child.And for this it is necessary to remove the distance between us. Ridiculous to imagine a situation when you shout from the next room a child, "What have you got going on inside? What do you feel? What do you think? Share with me! "
While the distance between us, no one will open your soul to let you into my inner world.But between us and our children already exists sometimes distance created by our criticism, misunderstanding, rejection. So (I'm not telling you anything new now!) Stop use parenting techniques that set the distance! Otherwise, we will never understand our children.
We need to be closer to our children.Closer physically - to be near, eye contact, listen. We need to get closer psychologically - to join them in their inner world. We'll discuss this further.
Do we know the world of our children?
Do we know their thoughts, feelings, biases?What do you know about the inner world of your child?
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| Similar Child |
What your child thinks, when waking up?
In what mood he wakes up?
Do it to be, to live next to you?
What's his favorite food?
Favorite movie?
Cartoon?
With whom he is friends?
What is the name of his friends?
Who is he and why quarrel?What takes place in the classroom or group of kindergarten?
Does enjoys prestige among children in the yard?
What lessons like?
What hate?
Which teachers like?
Who does not like? Why?
What is your child interested in?
What was he dreaming?
He divided his dreams?
With whom he is in love?With whom he was in love? Who was this man? Why love is over?
What grief was your baby? Because of what he sad?
Is afraid of your child?
What he was not sure?
What it lacks in life?
What does he want from you?
What support is needed to your child?
If we all will knoweasier for us to become a close friend to your child. Easier to support him. And the support that he really needs.
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| Similar Child |
While the distance between us, no one will open your soul to let you into my inner world.But between us and our children already exists sometimes distance created by our criticism, misunderstanding, rejection. So (I'm not telling you anything new now!) Stop use parenting techniques that set the distance! Otherwise, we will never understand our children.
We need to be closer to our children.Closer physically - to be near, eye contact, listen. We need to get closer psychologically - to join them in their inner world. We'll discuss this further.
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